Are there signs that your holding on to your Ex ? Say for example, Your in a current relationship and with someone you truly love. However your spouse notices that you kept some items your past lover has given you. He/She feels like your holding onto the people in your past, In fear that you may not be over your Ex.
So why do people hold on to items that they probably never used or even pulled out the closet ? Is it because you don't want to be Told to get rid of them and would rather do it on your own ? Or is there a real reason why you cant just let the items go ?
Now the items that was given to you could be something like :
This Question is a Simple One. During Oral Sex,Would you prefer your girlfriend to Spit or Swallow ?
Even Though most females would never want to admit to doing the big old "Bobbing" act but times have changed, and a lot of women do opening give oral sex to their loved ones.
However time after time A man would ask the women to swallow his seaman. As if us sucking his sausage wasn't good enough. So I ask, What is the big deal about swallowing ?
Society today is pretty crappy. Over the years it seem that people have gotten more and more rude. Im sure your thinking why am I saying this ? I'll give you an example. Just last night I walked over to the check cashing store to get a money order. And while I was waiting for the light to change, I looked forward and saw somthing, (not sure if it was a man or a woman) sitting in the back seat. He/She was looking right at me, and then decided to stick their tongue out and wave it quickly up and down to demonstrate eating cooch. The first thing I thought to my self was, What is wrong with people ?
Now Im sure that one person simply was a jerk that desperately wanted attention. But through things I've seen in the past, people just don't have any respect anymore. Another example is when i was coming off the train and I see this young man trying to "Talk" to a young woman. Except his version of talking is " Hey yo Shawty can I Holla at you for a minute". Naturally the woman kept walking. So then the "Gentlemen" then said " Fuck You Too Dyke". The woman then put up her middle finger and went on with her day.
Not all men are like this, some actual do quietly walk up to a woman and speak like a human being. "What up Shawty " "What up Ma" are not ways to get a woman's attention in my opinion. What happened to the days when a woman would be chased and wooed by a man. A man walks to a woman and simply say.
I'm sure to be politically correct all of us would say NO its never ok. But what if the situation was different ? Say for example you have a son and he was in a relationship with a nice woman. You met her a couple of times, the two of you had dinner and talked, you really liked her. However from time to time your son comes and visit you at your home. You see his face slightly bruised and you of course ask him what happened and he truthfully says "Oh me and Sharon got in to an argument"
What would you think at that moment ? Would you ask your son what did he do ? Most people simply brush it off and figured they'll worked things out. Would you really be concerned for your sons safety ? Truthfully even parents wont really be concerned for their sons lives simply because he is the more dominate of the two sexes. You will then advice him not to hit her and to walk away from the argument. But what if he really loves her and don't want to leave ? Because you know " Its No Big Deal"
Well at this point weeks maybe months go by and you see your son again with scratches all over his face. Currently you see it as a problem, and you want to know what going on ? Why is she doing this ? and so on. Your son explain to you and you advice him to leave. Of course since he's the dominate man he thinks its no big deal, or she was just pissed off at the time now everything is cool. Now lets say that you decide to make a surprise visit to you son's house. But little do you know... Your about to be very surprised. You go on and knock on the door like normal, then you son comes by to answer it. You say your hellos, then you notice Sharon looks pretty upset. Naturally you ask what's going on ? They then begin to explain the problems their going through, however now their yelling and screaming at each other. You being a parent tell them to stop, but they keep going. Things get so heated Sharon goes to the back bed room to cool down.
Myspace, Face Book, Twitter etc are all Social websites used to keep in touch with or meet new friends. Every so often people also have a physical attraction towards the other person, which can help in developing a relationship.
Even though times have changed, people are still very uncomfortable with meeting their potential spouse online. Now there are some horror stories out there with people meeting on over the internet. However there are even more horror stories about individuals meeting in public also. Lets compare the two.
Well It's that time of the year again, Spring Time. Most people really like when spring time comes because they get to go out more and take off all their clothes. However for most people that is in a relationship, don't like Spring or Summer time at all. Mainly because when the weather heat up, so does the people outside.
Break- up season is just around the corner, or maybe it started already for some of you. For those that don't know what Break-Up Season is, I'll explain. Break-up season is when a man or woman is in a relationship and they cant keep their eyes off all the Naked People (very little clothing) walking the streets. They being to fantasy about them and get aroused at the very thought of their body. Now
Hello Everyone ! I just came across a story about a preacher and wanted to get some opinions on it. First off let me just say if there is anyone out there that maybe offended about this story... please STOP reading now.
OK this is the story, there was a pastor in is late 30's that was married and had two little girls. Apparently they have not been happy in their marriage for years now, and they claim to only stay together for their children. So to make the story short, he wind up meeting another woman. After they met they been "Friends" (No hankie Pankie) . Well I'm sure we all know where this is going, but the pastor wind up separating from his wife and later on got a divorce, then started officially dating this new woman.
This is a questions among all questions, Do the size of the penis REALLY matter when it comes down to intercourse ? OK ladies a lot us out there believes that a man has to be large in order to truly satisfy them. Lets discuss that a bit. What is the point of a Large penis ? And does the width matter also ? Large penises comes in different shapes and sizes.
Hey, Im writing this post today for some advice on my Boyfriend's Daughter. OK so im 31 years old and my Boyfriend has a 10 year daughter. Now I know it's wrong for me to say this, but i don't like her at all. She talks back, She nasty to me and my son which is 7 years old and she simply has no respect for me what so ever. The main reason for this is the mother. You see the mother influences her bad behavior because she don't like me. As a result, the daughter feels like she don't have to listen to me because her mother told her that.
Am I a Slut just because I had sex with 15 people ? What makes a woman a slut ? Is it the amount of men we sleep with ? or is because they were one night stands ?
Once or twice in your life you might ask yourself this question.
When you talk with your friends do you shy a way from saying the amount of people you were with because you think they'll judge you ? Did you ever tell your friend "The Number" and see that "WTF" look on her face.
So times I wonder, Do you have to be In Love with all 15 people in order not to be a slut ? Or is it because you were with that amount and automatically makes you a slut regardless of how you felt about them ?
We all know the double standard, If a man slept with 15 women and didn't care about none of them... He's "The Man". But when a woman mount that horse and proudly conquered those same 15 men why cant she be " Da Shit" ? I guess that's because women are looked to be delicate flowers. Pure, innocent creatures that should remain "Pure" or close to it till marriage. And Men represent "DOGS' which are animals that pee where ever they lift their leg. Dogs hump the first "Bitch" (female dog) they can find. Of course there are those rare "dogs" ... the faithful ones, that stay with their owner and will never stray any where else.
It's disappointing that the men we love and they love us just the same... Have such a LOW bar they have to limbo under. The only goal for a Man is to NOT be a "Dog" and sadly most of them fail at that. I guess not much is expected from a "DOG" but to pee and hump "Bitches" . People praise a man for being a 'Dog" by calling him "The Man" when they slept with 20 - 30 women that they don't know or care about at all. But yet, a woman is a "Slut" for being like a Man... maybe having a little too much fun.
Hopefully that day will come when we start judging ourselves and not each other. Then maybe something magical will happen.... "Dogs" (Men) and "Bitches" (women) become just humans that some time make mistakes and simply learn from them, then most importantly ... "Move On" and grown from them.
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February 13th 10:30 pm, I come home from visiting my mother's house. I told my boyfriend a head of time when i was coming back home. I get to my front door then ring the bell and he greets me with a hug and a kiss. After he removes bags from my had i walk in ... To see the hall way covered in white and bubble gum colored pink rose petals. Then I followed the direction of the rose petals all the way to the bedroom.
Ann P. asked - There is a man that im head over heels in love with. But The main problem im having is, Technically he is married. Now the situation with his wife is that they do still live together but they sleep in different rooms. And i know this because i came over to his house and spent the night... While the wife was there. And yes she was very pissed off at him. It seem to me that she still loves him but he dont love her any more. Should i be concerned that their still married and he wont give me a direct answer as to when they might get a divorce.
Wow Ann, this is a very odd situation your in. And you could very well be right, for the wife to sit back and let that happen in her home really says to me, Either she dont care, or she's mad because their suppose to be in a "OPEN" relationship however she cant handle when he brings someone else home. Clearly he does have some feelings for her because im sure you have no problem with him moving with you. Or he gets his own place while he file for divorce (if he really wants to do it). It seems like, unfortunately ... your in a DEAD END relationship.
One day you will look to him for a better and stronger commitment. However, how can he really ever commit to you, When he's trying to have his cake and EAT IT TOO ? You might want to rethink some things out and discuss this with him. If he's unable to show some SIGNS that he is willing to leave his wife, then you should just leave him.
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Sex is defined to be - sex is a process of combining and mixing genetic traits, often resulting in the specialization of organisms into a male or female variety (known as a sex).
Sex is also of course used to have children. Sex is suppose to be done with two people that love each. Or in some instances, with two people that just met and find each other attractive. But what happens if you find the perfect Guy or Girl, and the sex is BAD? Is bad sex an automatic deal breaker ?
We as humans are creatures of habit. In this time of day it is very difficult to keep and maintain your partner if they are not fulfilled. Most of the time they get lured to someone else. And if that is the case, then does that mean the person don't care about you? or are they looking out for themselves ? There is still love in the relationship, but why is that's not enough for us anymore. The Man and Woman love each and are happy except for the intercourse. Most people "want it all", a good man or woman that wont cheat,love and honor you, Funny, strong, work-out, loves their mother, watch movies, go clubing together, vegetarian...and ETC.
Its no wonder most of us are still single, or in bad relationships because they only focus on one aspect. If a man or woman is extraordinary in bed, when they mess up in the relationship the spouse sometime look the other way. But if things were different they would let them go much quicker . Most people will never settle for second best, but will that "PERFECT" spouse ever come ?
Mostly Everyone knows what a stop sign is. normally is means come to a halt. Or sometimes it me "STOP" danger a head. However in relationships or dating, not ever notice the sure fire signs of something bad to come. a lot of us ignore the signs. you met someone special (in your head) but they have 5 children and a very angry EX-Boyfriend or Girlfriend. And all that person do is cause more drama in your life and relationship.
So the question is, Do you leave the situation because its already out of control ? Or do you stay as the EX lover try to fight you every time they see you. Or they bust all four of your tires simply out of jealousy. Do you continue ? Your head over heels in love with this person, but is that enough to make you stay ? Most people would say NO. Simply because they would prefer not to have drama in their lives. Even though that person could have been their equal, their lover for life, unfortunately things don't always work out. And maybe one day you will find the right person that loves you just as much as you love them. And most of all, that person won't have so much drama when you meet. As a result you build a stronger and happier relationship.
Karmen P asked - After moving in with spouse back in 2009, we've been having more arguments than normal. Some times We don't know what to say to each other if we have a complaint about something, simply because we just don't want to offend the other person.
Is there a tactful way for say ..... Please pick up stuff ! or Stop Sticking my toes in your mouth !
How would you try to tell your lover something but with out hurting their feelings or starting an argument ?
Well moving in together can very well be one of the biggest steps a relationships takes besides marriage. Couples like to move in together in order to be closer and build more of a bond with each other. And maybe one day that bond will be so tight that you get married and start a family (if that's in the cards for you). However moving in together is all about understanding and boundaries. Each of you must understand that you are not there to be his mother and he is not there to be the "MAN" of the house. Things are suppose to be equal, no matter who owns the house or apartment. Your boyfriend must understand that YOU live there too. And your not there just to clean up after him.
Some time with men, if you tell them or demand them to do something they feel like "A Child" as if your his mother all over again. So simply just ask him with out sounding demanding or as if your scolding him. As a result he'll probably be much more aware about the things he is doing and start helping you a lot more around the house. -smile
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Charise A. asked -My boyfriend and I pretty much have good sex life. For example we have sex maybe every other day or every two days. Till one day when he was at work and I was home, I masturbated. So when he came home that night I wasn't in the mood. Then of course he got upset. Now I'm not gonna lie, I masturbated maybe four times since we moved in. However he feels like there's something wrong with our sex life ?
Is that true? Just because i masturbate from time to time only when he is NOT home, Does that mean our sex life is in trouble ?
Studies say that Masturbation is very healthy in woman. And it is only a problem if a woman begins to masturbate more often then having sex with their spouse. as a result the spouse is getting no attention at all and then their needs are un-met. The problem is that if a man is having intercourse with a woman they feel as if they should always satisfy you.
So if they know you masturbate from time to time, then they think their doing something wrong or their not 'Enough" for you. as a result they get defensive. I'm sure once you reassure him that he satisfy you fully and explain to him why you masturbate occasionally, that should be able to clear things up for him. And if he still have a problem with masturbation, at that point you should ask yourself is this helping or hurting your relationship. And if its hurting the relationship, then you should reconsider doing from now on. therefore the two of you can continue to grow and prosper.
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I see you across the room, looking so swave.
Myspace, Face Book, Twitter etc are all Social websites used to keep in touch with or meet new friends. Every so often people also have a physical attraction towards the other person, which can help in developing a relationship.
Mostly Everyone knows what a stop sign is. normally is means come to a halt. Or sometimes it me "STOP" danger a head. However in relationships or dating, not ever notice the sure fire signs of something bad to come. a lot of us ignore the signs. you met someone special (in your head) but they have 5 children and a very angry EX-Boyfriend or Girlfriend. And all that person do is cause more drama in your life and relationship. 
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